Question: Islamic question please no stupid answers private question?

(Posted by: CHILL OUT on 2010-03-03 05:26:54)

I have stopped masterbuating and im feeling desperate to do it is it possible to do it and then start again and this time trying to beat because its been 10 or 11 days and i can start slowly thats the longest i have been

Posted by: Hassan on 2010-03-03, 06:37:37

You cannot quit anything at once. you should quit your bad habits slowly. if you quit instantly they will come back aggressively.

Posted by: The Reverend Soleil on 2010-03-03, 05:29:32

Yeah -- REAL private question there...

Posted by: Spider on 2010-03-03, 05:30:17

Lol Then why stop? If you can keep going then keep going. Have fun :)

Posted by: -FYOP- Ruler Of None -1111- on 2010-03-03, 05:31:30

Let me repeat what I said before ... You are going to have a lot of trouble walking pretty soon ... take care of business ... Ohhhh ...see when you said private I thought you meant between you and I ... woopsy

Posted by: Dedicated Secularist on 2010-03-03, 05:33:50

Please explain what this has to do with Islam. Masturbation is not a habit that is peculiar to Muslim men and women.

Posted by: Zeeshan Arshad on 2010-03-03, 05:38:31

No one except Allah can save you from this habit my brother. Make a decision for 5 times prayer at least and keep reciting Durood Shareef as often as you can to get relief. Stop reading bad material and sites, stop living with such friends who also involved in bad activities in our society. However, permanent solution to this is that try to get marry if you can otherwise Satan will keep attacking you to perform this again. May Allah bless you with his mercy and will!

Posted by: safety dawg on 2010-03-03, 05:39:15

Private and islamic huh...lol

Posted by: Fundamentalist on 2010-03-03, 05:43:16

Assalam o Aliakum. (next time ask such questions in the social sciences -- > Holidays-- > Ramadan section) Please listen to these Youtube videos, they present a cure for the sick habit of masterbation: youtube.com/ watch?v= 0d2VVZ1EASo Do remember , this life is a test, and masterbation is on of the most widespread evils the society faces today. Do read nimaz, or fast if this bad habit holds strong to you. When you continuously keep yourself and your body clean (i.e. in a state of ablution ) then you will definitely Do read with me: Praise be to Allaah. Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence: First from the Qur’aan: Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors. " 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor. "And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty. " 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty. Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him): Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power. " Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it can be done. There are additional evidences that can be cited to support this ruling on masturbation, but due to the limited space we will not go through them here. Allaah knows what is best and most correct. As for curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions: 1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaah’s orders and fearing His punishment. 2) A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person is able, as shown in the Prophet’s hadeeth. 3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid oneself of it. 4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.) will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden). Allaah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses and in the Prophet’s hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings): "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) ..... " 24.30-31 Allaah’s messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden things) with another look. " Al-Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the Prophet to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead him/ her to commit the haraam (forbidden). 5) Using one’s available leisure time in worshipping Allaah and increasing religious knowledge. 6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/ or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation. 7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even homosexuality. 8) Strengthening one’s willpower and avoiding spending time alone as recommended by the Prophet when he said "Do not spend the night alone " Ahmad 6919. 9) Following the Prophet’s aforementioned hadeeth and fast when possible, because fasting will temper one’s sexual desire and keep it under control. However, one should not overreact and swear by Allaah not

Posted by: wren on 2010-03-03, 05:59:35

There really is a time and place for private questions........... You know, if you would call on the name of the Most High God, and confess your sins, He will hear from Heaven and cleanse you from all unrighteousness ( sins )...He is only a prayer away. In your Holy Book, He is known as Issa ibn Maryam.....